"Life is not measured by the number of breaths you take but by the moments that take your breath away."

Wednesday, October 29, 2008

Jacobi Magsam

Today we met our son, Jacobi Shawn Ryan Magsam!

He was born on October 28th at 10:20pm. We got the call from Aries at around 11:20pm. I was completely surprised that he came so early, that he was a boy instead of a girl, and by Dalene flipping the light on and yelling/crying me out of a dead sleep. I'll keep that memory for a long time.

We already had the perfect name picked out, the only problem it was a girl name. We left home at 12:30am this morning and talked most of the 5 hour trip about boy names. We arrived at the hospital with Jacobi Ryan as our favorite. Aries had already picked out Shawn Ryan, as Shawn was the delivering doctor that had also been extremely supportive during her pregnancy. Since all the names have meaning that will be a part of the baby's heritage, at the risk of him one day hating his extremely long name, we combined them to form Jacobi Shawn Ryan!

We are having a wonderful time here at the hospital with Aries and Jacobi. We know we won't be able to have as much contact with Aries after we go home with Jacobi, so are trying to spend as much time with her as we can. It will be difficult to leave her tomorrow with Jacobi knowing It will probably be awhile before we see her again. Words cannot describe how wonderful it has been to know her above simply being the mother of our son, but also as a friend. We've already begun talking about a barbecue sometime about a year from now so she can meet some of our family!

Coincidentally we ran into some of the Friends here at the hospital who just had a son two days ago! It was special to meet them, we've only seen them once or twice before at convention. They are in the room next door to us!

And at last, the pictures...




31 comments:

Becky said...

He looks different in all his pictures, but they are all adorable!! I can't wait to see him! Love & Hugs from Grandma!

Becky said...

p.s. You both look very relaxed and experienced at parenting!

Anonymous said...

He has Dalene's hair color!
Can't wait to see him in person.

DK Campbell said...

Congrats Ryan and Dalene! He is a beautiful baby! :) Jamie told me he was born - It processed for a minute then I said HE??? hehe Keep posting pictures!

Anisa said...

Congratulations Mommy and Daddy! I'm so happy for you. I'm all teary-eyed from reading your post. He's so cute. Congratulations again!

Jerra said...

Dalene and Ryan - I'm so excited for you guys. Your story is amazing, loved reading the updates and the "finale" of you receiving your beautiful baby. Congratulations, we're so happy for you guys!

Anonymous said...

There's a lump in my throat, too. You all look great! Many, many blessings... to your beautiful new little family and to the birth mother who loves her child enough to choose you as his parents. Congratulations!

Gwen said...

WONDERFUL BUNDLE...Sitting her with happy tears :)
Aries must be some woman. Can't wait to meet him.
Have not heard the name..ja co bee??? we have shown great gma pics!!!

Anonymous said...

You guys...I can't explain the feeling I have in my heart right now. I'm SO happy for you! And I'm thankful that you've done what you have...and you've given this little boy SUCH a life ahead! I am SURE he will have the same thankfulness in his heart 27 years from now (like me)!!! We love you! And we can't wait to meet our new little great-nephew!!

Anonymous said...

Congratulations you guys!!! He is so precious!!! It's hard to put into words, how happy we are for you!! I was telling everyone at work, "my friends baby was born." Enjoy every moment.

Becky said...

Yes, with a long O. (Mommy and Daddy might be having a little nap)

Unknown said...

Hello to this precious family! We enjoyed so much hearing about your precious little bundle arriving! So many, many thoughts have gone your way - even though the phone/email have not brought them forward lately =)

Feel some humongous hugs around you all - we love you and can't wait to meet this bundle in person. Until then, we will enjoy thinking of those coos and murmers - from both your little son and both of you looking upon him. =)

Lots and lots of love! DDBCCJ

Jeff & Aleigh said...

AWWW!!!! I'm so happy for you both!!! I'm sorry he ended up being a boy instead of a girl, but you'll love him just the same! I love his name too and am impressed that you picked it within a few hours! You both look SO happy!! CONGRATS Mom & Dad!!

MT Foners said...

SOOO CUTE!!! Joel says: That is quite the hair! it's ADORABLE! and I love the chins complete with a dimple! with all the excitement in MN... I wonder if we can talk you in to coming to visit us in Montana?!? ; ) Congrats again happy family!

Becky said...

Grandma's just checking in here to see Jacobi one more time and give him a goodnight kiss. We are so happy you've entered our world. Sleep sweet, little one. We love you! XOXOXOX

Anonymous said...

He has Tyleigh beat with the hair!! We are so excited for you all! I can't get it into my head we have a new relative...:D

Anonymous said...

What a dream-come-true! Little Jacobi is absolutely adorable! We hope we don't have to wait too long to cuddle him. I too have happy tears looking at your pictures and reading your stories. I'm so happy you have a close relationship with Aries. That will make it all the more special in the years to come.
Hugs, hugs and more hugs from the Boyds

Neisha said...

CONGRATULATIONS guys!!!
I'm totally thrilled for you!

Anonymous said...

Wow- So glad that I happened to check your blog! Love the name- and how you came up with the two middle names. How much did he weigh? What a little cutie. :-)

Mindy said...

very sweet! congratulations - we hope to see him in our mtg. soon!

Anonymous said...

congratulations from the bottom of my heart, to both of you! i'm all teary-eyed too, so happy that everything worked out. isn't it crazy how god's plan works out? again, congrats to the new mommy and daddy!

Melissa said...

Congratulations on your beautiful baby boy!

Lars and Tara said...

Congratulations!!!!!

Sonya said...

I can't believe Aunt Sonya is the 24th one to leave a comment. He is so wonderfully perfect and looks like he was made to fit into Dalene & Ryan Magsam's arms. I love him. The fun has just begun ;) PS I am so happy he's a boy...he'll fit into the Spinar wildness so well

Anonymous said...

Congratulations - you guys!!! I can just imagine how tickled you are to finally be holding your own baby!! he looks adorable and already looking up at Ryan for advice? approval? Hope to see you ALL real soon. Have some wonderful days and enjoy every minute - YES! - even when he cries - it all goes by soooo fast!

Anonymous said...

Just imagining what it was like for you to get the phone call that Jacobi was born brings shivers and tears. We are so happy for you!! Thinking of when you all separate and go different directions, too. Lots of love and feel a hug from us in WI. He is perfect in every way. Our girls were anxious to see the pictures and we heard "ahhhhhhhhhh"

Our Love,
KDJKL

Kristi said...

I have been thinking about you these past days! I seen on your sisters facebook that she had a new nephew, I to was expecting to hear about a girl!! :) He is just adorable! So excited for you both!

Kristi

Lorene said...

He is wonderful. I am so glad you made the choice to adopt him. I have been thinking about his birth mother and how much she loves him to the point of giving him to you. You will be the most awesome parents! I absolutely love his name! Aedan and Emmett, Tanner and Wyatt, Nolan and Cole and Ryan and Brendon, Elliot and Liam, and Now JACOBI..That's a baseball team and 2 extras!!! And then there are Miranda and Kaylee, Amara and Avrie and Megan..Oh, My, when are we going to get together again?? and WHERE??

katrina said...

CONGRATULATIONS on your precious baby boy! You will absolutely love having a little boy!

~J,K,&C

adcoppedge said...

Congratulations! What a sweet family! I am so excited for you. I can't imagine your feelings when you got the call. What a blessing. I love his hair!! He is absolutely perfect. Boys are so much fun. Congrats again! You are truly blessed.

Anonymous said...

Absolutely perfect!!! I hadn't checked in a few days and WOW I was shocked when I looked this morning. I was on the phone with my mom and dad when I was reading so they heard my tears of joy when I was reading. I so wish that I was close enough to meet that perfect little bundle of joy. Congrats!!! I am so happy for you both.