This may not be exactly the kind of announcement you're expecting, and we have some hesitation about whether to even make a bold proclamation of our plans at this point--but we are definitely excited and want to share! :) We are planning to build our family through adoption! This is a process and is nothing that will happen overnight or even over a couple of months--it will take that long to complete the home study and all of the requirements that go into it and then get accepted by the agency we're considering. However, it is an exciting process and one that we know that we're not going to be able to keep quiet about!
Although we've been talking, thinking, and researching about adoption for several months and contacted an attorney and agency who practice locally for more information, today we took the first actual step--we faxed our home study application and fee to the agency! By the time we got home from work, we had received 2 emails from the agency: one assigning a local social worker to us and the other sending all of the forms and requirements for "phase II" of the home study process. :)
We are hoping to go through a unique program called "A New World Awaits" (http://www.newworldawaits.com/index.html) that is a joint effort between American Adoptions (http://www.americanadoptions.com/) and a local attorney named Eugene Kelley. I say the program we're HOPING to adopt through because we can't even apply to work with them until the home study is almost complete and all of the necessary documents, background checks, etc. have been returned satisfactorily. Then we hope that they like us, think that we're a couple their birth mothers would find appealing, and agree to work with us.
I spent an hour on the phone with Mr. Kelley one day a few weeks ago and was super impressed; he's definitely a leader in his field and specifically with adoption. He has great references in the legal field & also from adopting couples he's worked with. He's also involved for the right reasons and is realistic as well as positive. He wants what is best for the child, first of all, but also for the birth mother and the adopting couple. We haven't met our social worker officially yet, but have been emailing questions when completing the home study application. Now we're excited to go forward--and we have plenty of work to do!
I'd better stop here--I could go on for pages and pages--but I'll spare you all! Thanks for reading--please keep us in your thoughts and we'll try to keep you somewhat updated throughout the process. :) It's definitely NOT a done deal--there are many, many pieces of the puzzle to put into place--but we are hopeful that we can do that with a lot of help!
"Life is not measured by the number of breaths you take but by the moments that take your breath away."
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Congratulations you guys!! How exciting! Be sure to keep us all updated as things progress!
I have tears reading this! I'm so happy for you! Of course I'm a bit partial to adoption myself...but when it was taking years to get pregnant Eric and I started the process as well. Then suddenly I got pregnant! Congrats to you guys! Just bear through the ups and downs.........
Dorena
Thanks so much for the update! I've been spreading the news every chance I get, but glad you posted here in case I don't get everything right!
a family i clean for adopted thru some place that got their children from russia..they got him when he was 10 months old..he is 3 now..and adorable..and they also have their own 8 month old now.and it does take 9 months to make one so the TIME with the process may go faster than you think:)
congrats..
Gwen
Oh, this is SO wonderful. It is the most amazing experience I've ever been through. The first time your child smiles for YOU, and reaches for YOU, is the most amazing thing I've ever experienced. We had an amazing journey on our adoption and cannot wait to start again. So, if you ever need to visit with someone whoe's been there done that...give us a call or email...
tsfberg@yourstarnet.net
Stacie Forsberg
Congratulations Ryan & Dalene! We are so excited for you both! You will make awesome parents! Love-Ashton &Jamie....
ashtonjamie.wordpress.com
That's wonderful! Thanks for sharing! We'll be thinking about ya'll!
Mike and Kristen
sister i can't wait---- kingston needs another cousin! by the way i finally updated my blog! love you
Well I have not updated mine yet but finally got around to looking at yours! Hopefully I can be half the aunt that you are to my boys. You will be a beautiful mother to beautiful children.
Dalene! That is wonderful news! Keep us posted on everything! :)
Love, Lisa
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